Posts Tagged ‘Life’


Posted: March 17, 2017 in MEXY-DOO'S DIARY
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Heyyy….Been ages since my last post, i hope i still have the skill to get your attention and if i don’t, forgive me.

I have several things on my mind, mostly relationship themed as usual but in diverse forms so i will get into it.

Some things baffle me about the female folks, their ways are not our ways. This is not me generalizing but they are sure a mystery. (more…)



……….Of course this was a curve ball of being abused and never lifting a finger against her or any women. She had suffered a cracked rib, scuffed elbow and bite mark. She fell and hit a door knob in her ribs and elbow hit the heating vent on one of her attacks. I admitted to biting her to get away from her. (more…)


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I was raised with strong moral beliefs and one was that man should never hit a woman.

For 12 years I was married and abused by my now ex-wife. I am a survivor and not a victim.

When we were first started dating she stated that she had been abused prior by her partners. She became physically abusive in the early stages of dating. I thought that this was because she had only know this in response to her previous relationships. I sadly thought that if I just showed her that two people could have a discussion if I just acted right. (more…)


Posted: August 18, 2016 in MEXY-DOO'S DIARY
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I’m about to rant and I am not sorry. *adjusts mic*.

Have you ever wanted something so badly or been very expectant, could be something tangible like a car, house, a certificate for a degree, a new baby or maybe something intangible but very valuable like a promotion, a job etc ? That you have done everything  you conceived morally and even spiritually possible to be ready to receive it but it does not come? (more…)

“Heeey, who do we have here if not the sexy Nicole?”….Nicole in her attempt to turn and find out who had called her, hit some packs of cereal to the ground. “Err..sorry about that”..apologizing to the shop attendant. “Heyyy, Ronke! ahan, longest time, where have you bee….” “ehn ehn! don’t start”, Ronke interrupted raising her hand, “Is it not you that forgot about us, ever since you got transferred to another branch..go jor”. Nicole was trying to control her laughter, she was happy to see her close friend and former colleague. (more…)


Posted: July 8, 2015 in MEXY-DOO'S DIARY
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“Good day sirs, have you had time to go through the menu or decided what you would”…..”Water will be fine”, interrupted Oliver. “I will have the chef’s special thanks”. The waiter walking away rather confused. I knew something was wrong, something he was not telling me and i was intent on getting to the bottom of it.

Oliver has been my one of my closest friends, he was like a brother to me but since i was relocated to Port Harcourt (Job reasons) we haven’t kept in touch as much as we would have loved. But he called me, said it was important and i remember the tone in his voice. I could smell trouble. (more…)

I knew him or should i say them. it was almost too good. A relationship goal. Picture perfect.

They had more than love, they seemed to understand it took more than that to stay together. This for me was the difference and what people failed to understand. That there are stages to this – that is, a great relationship. (more…)


Posted: June 21, 2015 in MEXY-DOO'S DIARY
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The world that i know is fast fading away. Things that i used to know as the usual or right way seems so strange now. I know there is a popular saying that sounds like this:  “Change is the only constant thing in life” but is it needed when things are going well?. I mean, if you’ve been having constant power supply all through your childhood, do you need change?

I’m not here to talk about electricity or any of that, atleast not today. You may end up disagreeing with me and that’s fine but let me say my mind. (more…)


Posted: May 31, 2015 in MEXY-DOO'S DIARY
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Hello fam and Happy new Month to you all.

So no posts last Month (May), was a tad occupied, serving my fatherland (N.Y.S.C). Everyone has been asking me about my 3weeks experience in camp and so i’ve decided to have a post dedicated to that. Please Watch out for it.

The other night my mind just drifted across several issues…as usual Lol.

Many times we (youths) tend to think or worry about what the future has in store for us, (more…)

Connection, Degree or Talent?

Posted: April 9, 2015 in JoB MiRRor
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Image result for struggles of a graduateHello! my special readers. I just want to say a big thank you to everyone who takes time out of their busy schedule to read my blog. I really really appreciate everyone and also for your amazing comments. I want you to know that people see these comments and you are indirectly making someone better, including me. We learn everyday.