Posts Tagged ‘Marriage’

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……….Of course this was a curve ball of being abused and never lifting a finger against her or any women. She had suffered a cracked rib, scuffed elbow and bite mark. She fell and hit a door knob in her ribs and elbow hit the heating vent on one of her attacks. I admitted to biting her to get away from her. (more…)

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I was raised with strong moral beliefs and one was that man should never hit a woman.

For 12 years I was married and abused by my now ex-wife. I am a survivor and not a victim.

When we were first started dating she stated that she had been abused prior by her partners. She became physically abusive in the early stages of dating. I thought that this was because she had only know this in response to her previous relationships. I sadly thought that if I just showed her that two people could have a discussion if I just acted right. (more…)

…..Sarah had a quick flash back to how she had met him in one of her roommate’s birthday parties. He was everywhere that day, lighting up the whole gathering. She could not take her eyes of him and finally he saw her peeping with her side eye. They got talking and everything worked out perfectly..but there was one small issue.

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Marriage is a thing of joy, pride and sometimes an achievement. Depending on what societal background you come from. In Africa, particularly West Africa, it is almost seen as mandatory for everyone when they reach a particular stage in life or attain a certain level.

The more glamorous event is the wedding day. This is the center of it all. Here everyone, friends, family, enemies and the likes all come to ‘celebrate’ with you. Each with their own secret agendas like Taking dope pictures for instagram, eating jollof rice and dodo, showing off their fashion style, catching bouquets and all.

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all these things are not exactly bad and i am in no place to judge because i might be a victim, i said might lol. (more…)

“Heeey, who do we have here if not the sexy Nicole?”….Nicole in her attempt to turn and find out who had called her, hit some packs of cereal to the ground. “Err..sorry about that”..apologizing to the shop attendant. “Heyyy, Ronke! ahan, longest time, where have you bee….” “ehn ehn! don’t start”, Ronke interrupted raising her hand, “Is it not you that forgot about us, ever since you got transferred to another branch..go jor”. Nicole was trying to control her laughter, she was happy to see her close friend and former colleague. (more…)

FAKE SMILE 2

Posted: July 8, 2015 in MEXY-DOO'S DIARY
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“Good day sirs, have you had time to go through the menu or decided what you would”…..”Water will be fine”, interrupted Oliver. “I will have the chef’s special thanks”. The waiter walking away rather confused. I knew something was wrong, something he was not telling me and i was intent on getting to the bottom of it.

Oliver has been my one of my closest friends, he was like a brother to me but since i was relocated to Port Harcourt (Job reasons) we haven’t kept in touch as much as we would have loved. But he called me, said it was important and i remember the tone in his voice. I could smell trouble. (more…)

I knew him or should i say them. it was almost too good. A relationship goal. Picture perfect.

They had more than love, they seemed to understand it took more than that to stay together. This for me was the difference and what people failed to understand. That there are stages to this – that is, a great relationship. (more…)

Hello everyone, its Mexydoo on the keyboard again..like you already know..doing what i do best…serving you hot topics with the Mexy flow….like only Mexy can…so stop hating young fan…LOL! lemme stop here before you guys start asking for my album. 😉

Okies, Trust me, i never thought i would be going on with this topic but from your comments i think we might just be doing a series. (more…)

The Bitter Pill

Posted: January 2, 2015 in MEXY-DOO'S DIARY
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Hey everyone, if you are reading this you made it into 2015. So permit me to give you a #MexydooDiary scream….HHAAAPPPPPPYYYY  NNEEEWW YEEAAAARRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I thank God for sparing our lives.

So today, i have something very very interesting for us to discuss and interact. YOU MUST (more…)